I have been involved with amusician for the last few months and what is striking is that unlike earlier situations, we never use music during sex (although I listen to his music sometimes when having fun alone). Instead, when together, we are both much more vocal than I have experienced before. This reminds me of how, with porn soundtracks, it is often the live vocalizations (not looped but synched) that turn me on the most, and their musicality in that context, the melodies, timbres & rhythms of moaning. A different kind of extended vocal practice.

from: anonymous